TESTIMONY. How my threesome helped me be more comfortable with my sexuality

Role-playing, tantrism, candaulism… According to the SexReport 2022, the threesome is the eternal favorite fantasy of French women and men, far ahead of group sex, sex in public or the traditional one-night stand.

For Clotilde, 28, there was never any question of testing threesomes: “I never thought of having a threesome with two guys”, she says at the start of her interview with Planet.fr. And yet! In March 2022, the life of the young woman is turned upside down by an evening in a very classic bar.

“I was in a bar with friends, we had been drinking, we were partying… And in the middle of the evening I meet a very nice boy with whom I chat, and who introduces me to his very nice friend too “, narrates Clotilde.

At first glance, no flirtation between the twenty-somethings: “We laughed together, we teased each other, I had no ulterior motives at all, even if one of them liked me physically … I was not at all in this perspective, “says the young woman.

But here it is: when the bar closes, Clotilde offers her new friends to continue the party at her place, in her living room. “We have a good laugh, they were really very close,” she continues. Everything goes wrong when the two friends kiss, “for fun”…

After this experience together, Clotilde decided to “test” her partners individually…

After this threesome experience, Clotilde decided to see her two partners again separately. “There is one who forgot his sock at my house, so I sent him a message and he came, we slept together and it was really nice,” she says. “The other, we really became friends, I can still see him,” continues the young woman. An event that truly changed Clotilde’s sex life.

However, the young woman is not sure to start again one day.

“It’s exhausting! I won’t do this every four mornings,” laughs the young woman. If the experience was very enriching for Clotilde, the latter is not used to this type of sexual relations, unlike the two men with whom she shared the night.

“Regarding a possible threesome involving a woman, I cannot say. I am more afraid to sleep with a woman than with a man, it impresses me a little more because I have the impression that it is more difficult to satisfy and I’m afraid that an unhealthy competition is setting in. I’m a little more half fig, half grape with this configuration, “she continues.

Before concluding: “We’ll see what the future holds for me, I’ve decided not to close my doors anymore!”