What should you do if the person you love runs away the first time you visit the apartment and doesn’t show up again? Thousands of women have answered what they like in a partner’s apartment.
“Women, what things are automatic plus points for you when you visit a man’s apartment?” asks a man on Reddit. The post has now accumulated thousands of comments from women giving their assessment.
As most women describe on the platform used by millions of people, the bathroom is the crucial room when deciding on a man’s qualities. “Towels and hand soap” are important for thousands of women here. A clean toilet and a fresh bath towel are also a big plus.
One woman writes about a no-go from a potential partner: “He offered me his only, slightly damp towel that I could use after showering. He had no other towels, not a single one. I asked. I decided to go home to shower and get to work a little later.”
Other women comment that they need a general feeling of cleanliness in the home when staying with a man. “Messy is okay, dirty is not,” said one comment. There would also be plus points if there was a healthy plant or a pet.
Another woman commented that she was visiting a friend who didn’t have hand soap in the bathroom. She then gave him a tube. A year later she visited him again and the tube was “untouched”.
Other things that women look for in a man’s apartment include books, spices and a clean bed. The Reddit men are also shocked by the clear and simple answers. “My goodness, the bar is low,” writes one app user.
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